Sunday, May 13, 2012

Mother’s Day


My mother is an angel and this is the fourth Mother’s Day that I celebrate her as an angel. I never imagined living life with an angel mother. I wish I had, for I would have been more thoughtful and deliberate in how I celebrated each Mother’s Day while she was alive.

My mother was born to be a mother. Motherhood meant everything to her. She invested every fiber of her being into her children from the moment each child was born until her last breath of life.  I know for I was at the beginning and the end and witness to everything in between.

Mom kept a book, Safeguarding Motherhood, by Sol T. De Lee M.D. It was her guidebook to pregnancy. I recall her referring to the book during my first pregnancy. Saving that book speaks volumes about her loving dedication to her family and the profession of motherhood.





Thank you for taking the time to read about my Mother on this day dedicated to all mothers. I would love to hear something special about your Mother. If you can, please take a moment to share a special memory about your beautiful Mother.

With Love,

Linda

Saturday, May 12, 2012

My Angel Mother


Abraham Lincoln said it best, “All that I am, or hope to be, I owe to my angel mother.”


Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Sickness and Suffering


To some this may be morbid but I have a growing collection of death certificates, as do most genealogists. Death certificates provide important information. Initially, I focused on birth dates, death dates, parents’ names and parents’ birthplace. This critical information allowed me to grow my family trees.

Knowing that all documents lie, it is important to remember that death certificates can give false information. A family member or close associate usually supplies information about the decedent. I remember giving incorrect information for my mother’s death certificate.

A great debate occurred around the location of her birth. I thought she was born in Chicago and my mother’s cousin was certain she was born in Arlington Heights. I yielded to Mom’s cousin because she knew my mother as a child. As a result, Mom’s death certificate reports her birth as Arlington Heights. The truth is she was born in Chicago but lived in Arlington Heights as an infant. I am living proof that even a daughter didn’t know everything about her mother and I should have.

With that said, there is a piece of information that I have ignored and that is the cause of death. The cause of death can be important to future generations who have significant health problems. I have a brother and nephew with chronic kidney disease. Did we have ancestors with kidney disease?

My death certificates show a wide variety of cause of death. Here are a few of the medical causes of death in my family trees: 

Dropsy, La Grippe, Acute Coronary Insufficiency, Fracture Cervical Vertebrae, Acute Decompressed Heart, Cerebral Hemorrhage, Carcinoma of the Bladder, Myocarditis, Influenza, Senility, Cerebral Apoplexy, Carcinoma of the Stomach, Uremia Septicemia, Infantile Marasmus, Acute Coronary Thrombosis, Carcinoma of the Prostate and Bladder, Chronic Nephritis, Cirrhosis of Liver, Pulmonary Tuberculosis, Shock and Hemorrhage due top accidental gun shot wound of the body, Chronic Brights, Diphtheria, Amyotrophic lateral sclerosis, Pneumonia.

That is a lot of sickness and suffering. It is kind of sick (no pun intended) but I find the causes of death very, very interesting. I came across a website dedicated to archaic medical terms that clarified exactly what my ancestors suffered from. If you are interested you can view the website at: http://www.antiquusmorbus.com/Index.htm.

Not that it solves anyone’s health problem, but I believe I may have found ancestors who suffered from kidney disease as my brother and nephew do. My mother’s Paternal Grandmother and Great-Grandmother (mother & daughter) seem to have died from kidney disease or the effects of kidney problems.  Mom’s Paternal Grandmother died following childbirth due to Uremia Septicemia. You won’t find Kidney Disease in the above list as it was previously called Brights Disease and Uremia Septicemia.




Monday, May 7, 2012

My Family Has Grown


A few months ago, I wrote about the desire to get a dog. Our home has been so quiet since the death of our Sweet Charlie. 
Sweet Charlie

As we approach the anniversary of his death, we did indeed take the plunge. In fact, our family increased by two apricot poodle puppies. My husband and I have one little pup and our daughter adopted his brother. We are definitely keeping in all in the family.

Brothers Riley and Ollie
Today I watched both puppies and I must say I am quite exhausted.

Puppy training and genealogy don’t mix well. Genealogy has taken a back seat as a curious puppy calls me away from my thoughts. Just for fun . . . here is our puppy genealogy.


 What’s up with my genealogy? I am attending the BIGWILL Seminar, “Courting Your English Ancestors,” on Saturday. The seminar is in Richmond, Illinois. I hope find a few pearls of British wisdom.

Good night,

Linda

Saturday, May 5, 2012

One Small Step


I have finally made my first small step in the search for evidence of my husband’s Revolutionary War roots. I believe that his maternal line descends from four Revolutionary War Patriots and my goal is to prove just that.

My search led me to California. Finding California death certificates and newspaper obituaries has stymied me for quite awhile. My motto, “Never say never,” finally paid off by finally cracking the California death record files. California lists death certificates on a database by name, date of death, age of death, county of death etc.

About two months ago after reviewing my choices, I took a “best guess” and ordered two non-certified death certificates. The death certificates just arrived and I discovered I did indeed choose the correct people. I know have my first evidence linking my mother-in-law to a Revolutionary War Patriot, Andrew Beatie (Beatty)!

This will be an interesting journey back in time to Virginia prior toward the Revolutionary War as Andrew Beatie was born in Virginia. Keep you posted!

Thursday, May 3, 2012

A Diary Written A Hundred Years Ago Becomes A Blog


A diary by definition is a written record consisting of entries that report happenings for the course of a day, week or possibly years. As a child, I had a personal diary in which I recorded my experiences. A small lock and key kept my diary safe from the prying eyes of my younger siblings. Recording my simple life experiences in a diary was not very exciting and I quickly lost interest.

I say “Hooray!” to all those who have kept diaries. As a genealogist, diaries offer a glimpse into your ancestors’ lives. What did they do? What did they think? My curious mind wants to know. I sure wish I were in possession of a diary.

Let me introduce you to a special blog titled “A Hundred Years Ago.” Sheryl Lazerus shares her grandmother’s diary in a blog format. Her daily posts correspond and are written exactly as her Grandmother wrote them.  I don’t know Sheryl but I think she has done a very nice job.

If you are interested, you can read her blog at ahundredyearsago.com.

Wednesday, May 2, 2012

Wisdom Wednesday


My maternal grandmother offered these words of wisdom:

Kids and Fools Tell The Truth!

I know she meant every word.
Love you, Grandma!


Linda